In Pakistan, a dark trade comes to light


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In Pakistan, a dark trade comes to light

By William Sparrow

BANGKOK - Prostitution in the Islamic nation of Pakistan, once relegated to dark alleys and small red-light districts, is now seeping into many neighborhoods of country's urban centers. Reports indicate that since the period of civilian rule ended in 1977, times have changed and now the sex industry is bustling.

Early military governments and religious groups sought to reform areas like the famous "Taxali Gate" district of Lahore by displacing prostitutes and their families in an effort to "reinvent" the neighborhood.

While displacing the prostitutes might have temporarily made the once small red-light district a better neighborhood for a time, it did little to stop the now dispersed prostitutes from plying their trade. Reforming a neighborhood, instead of offering education and alternative opportunities, appears to be at the core of early failures to curb the nascent sex industry. This mistake would become a prophetic error as now the tendrils of the sex trade have become omnipresent in cities like Islamabad, Rawalpindi, Karachi and Lahore, not to mention towns, villages and rural outposts.

An aid worker for an Islamabad-based non-governmental organization (NGO) recently related a story: quickly after his arrival in the capital, he realized the house next to his own was a Chinese brothel. The Chinese ability to "franchise" the commercial sex industry by providing down-trodden Chinese women throughout Asia, North America and Europe would be admirable in a business sense if it were not for the atrocities - human trafficking, sexual slavery and exploitation - which cloud its practice.

Chinese bordellos, often operating as "massage parlors" or beauty salons, are across Pakistan, even spread even to war-torn and restive locations such as the Afghan capital Kabul. Chinese in the sex industry have developed a cunning ability to recognize areas where the demand for sex far outstrips the supply.

The NGO worker said that after months of living adjacent to the brothel things were shaken up - literally. One evening a drunk Pakistani drove his car into the brothel. Later the driver told authorities the ramming was a protest by a devout Muslim against the debauchery of the house and its inhabitants. The NGO worker, however, had seen the same car parked peacefully outside the house the night before.

The local sex industry comprised of Pakistani prostitutes has also grown in recent years. One can easily find videos on YouTube that show unabashed red-light areas of Lahore. The videos display house after house with colorfully lit entranceways always with a mamasan and at least one Pakistani woman in traditional dress. The women are available for in-house services for as little as 400 rupees (US$6) to take-away prices ranging 1,000 to 2,000 rupees. These districts are mostly for locals, but foreigners can indulge at higher prices.

Foreigners in Pakistan have no trouble finding companionship and may receive rates similar to locals in downtrodden districts. More upscale areas like Lahore's Heera Mundi or "Diamond Market", cater to well-heeled locals and foreigners. At these places prettier, younger girls push their services for 5,000 to 10,000 rupees for an all-night visit, and the most exceptional can command 20,000 to 40,000 rupees for just short time.

Rumors abound online that female TV stars and actresses can be hired for sex. "You can get film stars for 50,000 to 100,000 rupees but you need good contacts for that," one blogger wrote after a trip to Lahore.

"The Lahore, Karachi and Rawalpindi sex scenes are totally changing and it's easier and easier to get a girl for [sex]," another blogger wrote. "Most of the hotels provide you the girls upon request." Bloggers also reported that it is easy to find girls prowling the streets after 6 pm, and foreigners can find young women hanging out near Western franchises like McDonald's and KFC. Such women, the bloggers claim, can lead the customer to a nearby short-time accommodation.

Short-time hotels offering hourly rates can be found all over major cities, underscoring the profits being reaped by the sex industry.

Pakistan can also accommodate the gay community with prostitution. Unfortunately, this has also given rise to child prostitution.

A Pakistani blogger wrote, "We [ethnic] Pathans are very fond of boys. [in Pakistan] the wives are only [had sex with] once or twice a year. There are lot of gay brothels in Peshawar - the famous among them is at Ramdas Bazaar. [One can] go to any Afghan restaurant and find young waiters selling sex."

As in many societies, access to technology, the Internet and mobile phones has only facilitated the sex trade in Pakistan. "Matchmaking" websites serve the male clientele, while providing marketing for prostitutes.

The root causes of prostitution in Pakistan are poverty and a dearth of opportunities. Widows find themselves on the streets with mouths to feed, and for many prostitution offers a quick fix. A local Pakistani prostitute can earn 2,000 to 3,000 rupees per day compared to the average monthly income of 2,500 rupees.

Forced prostitution is not rare. Women in hard times are often exploited and pushed into prostitution. Sandra (not her real name), said that after the death of her father she was left alone; friends and relatives deserted her after the grieving period. As a middle-class, educated woman she was surprised to find herself forced into prostitution from her office job.

"My boss initially spoiled me at first," she told Khaleej Times. "[but] now I am in [the sex industry]." Sandra first thought her boss was being gracious, but quickly learned he was grooming her for sex for his own pleasure, and then acting as her pimp.

Many of Pakistan's contemporary sexual mores may have evolved from traditional practices. For example, the polygamy permitted in Muslim society stemmed from the need for larger family units, the better to support familial ties and tend for widows. Until such ancient customs are updated, women such as Sandra will continue to be bought and sold.

It's time for Pakistan to admit that prostitution is doing a roaring trade within its borders, and will continue to prosper until it is addressed in a modern manner. Let us hope that the people and government of this proud Muslim country will stop pretending the problem simply isn't there.

William Sparrow has been an occasional contributor to Asia Times Online and now joins Asia Times Online with a weekly column. Sparrow is editor in chief of Asian Sex Gazette and has reported on sex in Asia for over five years. To contact him send question or comments to Letters@atimes.com.

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A Pakistani blogger wrote, "We [ethnic] Pathans are very fond of boys. [in Pakistan] the wives are only [had sex with] once or twice a year. There are lot of gay brothels in Peshawar - the famous among them is at Ramdas Bazaar. [One can] go to any Afghan restaurant and find young waiters selling sex."

:o i thought all was just joke about them.


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old new mac. this stuff has been around for centuries in sub-continent,

musafir ji, even though you equated this to being gay well that true, but since they are more interested in children boys as young as 5 years old which is classified as being pedophile, and this is really sick and morally f%%ked up #$%#. and pakistan is the only country where pedophiles are openly doing this serious crime an rest of the pakistan just shrug it of by just saying that this is in pathan culture. this is sad and disgusting.

as for adult homosexuals are concerned these people are everywhere in pakistan almost all male fashion designers are gay , for example nomi and even anybody can detect a gay person etc, then you got low categories gay people like hijras.

prostitution is everywhere in pakistan

only problem with this culture is we do everything but at the same time when asked we hide behind religion and culture etc.


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A Pakistani blogger wrote, “We [ethnic] Pathans are very fond of boys. [in Pakistan] the wives are only [had sex with] once or twice a year. There are lot of gay brothels in Peshawar - the famous among them is at Ramdas Bazaar. [One can] go to any Afghan restaurant and find young waiters selling sex.”

:o i thought all was just joke about them.

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He hasnt given his source but its also misleading. Homosexual behavior is prevailing much more in Lahore than anywhere in Pakistan. The major problem there is that its much more hidden and not discussed at all (as witnessed in hospitals there where many punjabi men come daily with diseases contracted only through homosexual activity).

Anyway fair to say the economy for masses goes down, the prostitution thing goes up!


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The root causes of prostitution in Pakistan are poverty and a dearth of opportunities.
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i think there is more to it than just poverty, ofcourse, poverty is the main reason.


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Prostitution is the worlds oldest profession known to mankind. and it is still going strong everywhere in the world, even in developed countries where poverty is not an issue. Despite the law, society, religion and pornography (;


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old new mac. this stuff has been around for centuries in sub-continent,

musafir ji, even though you equated this to being gay well that true, but since they are more interested in children boys as young as 5 years old which is classified as being pedophile, and this is really sick and morally f%%ked up #$%#. and pakistan is the only country where pedophiles are openly doing this serious crime an rest of the pakistan just shrug it of by just saying that this is in pathan culture. this is sad and disgusting.

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You are spot on. These people are pedophiles. They openly lure little boys for sex and nobody takes any notice. And it’s not even limited to Pathans. Where I live, all kinds of adults are or have been openly involved in pedophilia. Heck even a friend of mine had a crush on a little boy 3 years back. ;) It’s a shame that such monstrosities are committed in the broad daylight and the law keepers don’t give a damn about it.

As for prostitution, what can anyone do? Men will always find women who are willing to sell their body for money. You know, where there’s demand, there’s supply. :)


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Where is the "tech" in this topic? :/


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^^

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As in many societies, access to technology, the Internet and mobile phones has only facilitated the sex trade in Pakistan. "Matchmaking" websites serve the male clientele, while providing marketing for prostitutes.
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(;


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A little sensationalist....read "The Dancing Girls of Lahore" for much better insight in to the state of the world's oldest profession in Pakistan.


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i think there is more to it than just poverty, ofcourse, poverty is the main reason.

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i don’t think so that root cause is poverty, in karachi if you can spare 5 thousand rupees a night you can get philipini or thai hooker, 10 thousand and up you can get get European hooker with blond hair and blue eyes. and if you wanna go economy drive you ca always get high class desi aunties for 2 to 3 thousand rupees a night. take your pick… so where is the poverty factor here?


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Should Homosexual Marriages be allowed???in a country like Pakistan???


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Should Homosexual Marriages be allowed???in a country like Pakistan???
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dude this is far fetched pakistan is behind the curtain society, so behind the curtain everything goes and in front of the curtain same person would act like if he/she is the most pious honest morally good muslim. we all know how this society is i think this conversation should end here,

1-EVERYTHING “WAS” HAPPENING HERE

2-EVERYTHING “IS” HAPPENING HERE

3-AND EVERYTHING “WILL” BE HAPPENING HERE

THIS THREAD SHOULD BE LOCKED BECAUSE THIS THREAD IS GOING NOWHERE, WE ARE JUST REPEATING SAME THING POST AFTER POST.


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dude this is far fetched pakistan is behind the curtain society, so behind the curtain everything goes and in front of the curtain same person would act like if he/she is the most pious honest morally good muslim. we all know how this society is i think this conversation should end here,

1-EVERYTHING “WAS” HAPPENING HERE

2-EVERYTHING “IS” HAPPENING HERE

3-AND EVERYTHING “WILL” BE HAPPENING HERE

THIS THREAD SHOULD BE LOCKED BECAUSE THIS THREAD IS GOING NOWHERE, WE ARE JUST REPEATING SAME THING POST AFTER POST.

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But we should discuss it to solve the problems in sted of covering it…

Isnt it?


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But we should discuss it to solve the problems in sted of covering it…

Isnt it?

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futurebells i agree with you totally that we should engage in debates like this one and other topics but unfortunatley open conversations are not possible here 99% of the time these debates get locked or deleted by mods.

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Where is the “tech” in this topic? :confused:
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you see above mod just gave us soft warning, and when i saw that pretty soon this thread will be deleted or locked or somebody will get banned, knowing the history of this forum i myself wrote above that this thread should be locked.


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other countries like sweden have succesfully socially experimented in getting rid or at least reducing prostitution. case in point

http://www.justicewomen.com/cj_sweden.html

maybe we should try something like this in pakistan


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But we should discuss it to solve the problems in sted of covering it…

Isnt it?

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loadsheding khatam ker sakay hoa!

blabbing like this in forums wont do #$%#! i don’t understand guys like you, no balls to stand up to authorities! you want them to play with you like you are their !@#$%!


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@pawnd

who you are referring to me or futurebells in above remark?


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future beeles :S

Mod: Pawnd behave urself and do not insult other members like this again.


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Although this is the General Discussion section, the admin team has decided this is an inappropriate topic for this forum, seeing how this discussion will very soon go off on a tangent to include homosexuality, religion etc. Lets stay away from from discussing these things here shall we!